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Mary Foster Youngstown, Ohio — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:06:46 GMT

Thank you for being so brave in sharing such a personal story. As a Hospice nurse I know how important it is for everyone to know this important information. May you find peace as you grieve the loss of your beloved Dad.

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Dorothy White, Yarmouth, Maine — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:08:53 GMT

Dear Anne...having lost a father when I was 21...and a mom when I was 28...I thought the worst was behind me. But when I turned 50 years old I lost one of the true loves of my life, my 15 year old daughter. Annie, my beautiful first born, was multi handicapped and faced a challenging 15 years. But her love of life and intense sense of humor reminded me so much of your dad! Perhaps one of the greatest compliments I have ever received was this: after Annie's funeral, an aunt told us that she had never been to a funeral before in which she left feeling better than when she had arrived. Yes, that is their legacy - your dad's, and Annie's. To leave the world a better place than when they arrived. They did that, both of them, didn't they?

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Kira McGinnis Mobile, AL — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:11:30 GMT

Ann,
I want to thank you and your family for sharing such a personal and precious story concerning your father's battle with cancer. It was truly a story on how to live with courage and love. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

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Joan Zucchiatti, Boyne City, Mi — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:14:59 GMT

Ann, your fathers story touched my heart. When you tall a story your face tell us everything. Happy, sad, dispair, anger. You can sagway from one story to another and we know your sincere by your facial expressions.. I have so much respect for you, your father must be so proud. My husband and I look forward to you and a cup of coffe in the morning.

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Judy Rice — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:15:36 GMT

Ann,
Thanks to your sharing I had my 1st really good cry since my Dad died in Nov. 07. I am slow to react, trying to be strong.There are times I want to talk with him. He, like your Dad, was ready to go and died at home as he wished. But I miss his wisdom. I have not yet listened to an interview I did of him and my Mom. Maybe soon.....Thanks so much. Judy

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Tim Abler Milwaukee, Wisconsin — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:19:21 GMT

Ann,
Thank you for sharing this tribute and reflection about your father.
We are sorry for your loss. As always you have told us a story which speaks softly about our lives.
Peace

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craig merker greenwich nj — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:20:27 GMT

i was quite moved by your reporting of your fathers passing. at 60 i have both parents still very active mom at 92 is treasurer for a women's club; and dad at 93 is very active with the lions club & doing outside gardening. i spend as much time with them as possible. sometimes they wear me out!!!!!!!!!!!

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Brenda Amelung, Lake Charles, Louisiana — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:20:58 GMT

Thank you Ms. Cury for sharing such a personal and sad story. My heart goes out to you and your family. After seeing the story tonight, I couldn't help but have tears in my eyes. This story made me feel like I knew you and your dad personally even tho all I've seen is what's on t.v. You've always covered your stories with such professionalism and style that you are what true journalism is all about. Thank you again and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Jackie Rawlings 62 Riverside California — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:21:46 GMT

Ann your Father will live forever in you so he'll never die. When I lost my Dad I didn't know what to do, how to act or even why I couldn't cry. Just the thought of him no available to me didn't seen real. An old friend of my Dad's told me my Dad would be with me as long as I wanted. Ya the man was old and I thought he was strange. Words like sorry, things will get better didn't mean anything. I later thought about what that old man said and realized my Dad was me and I am my Dad. Anytime I need him I close my eyes and see the pictures of our lives together. My kids and I often talk about the fun things we did with my Dad. Of course what would he say about everything. I don't have him to ask questions or talk to but he will always be by guide and watch over me as he always did. I'm getting old myself now and still remember his smile, advice and debates over everything. That's why I have a strong personality and fight for what I believe in. It was my Dad who taught me that and yes I passed it on to my kids. God gave us pictures to help us remember, never forget and always keep those we love.

Now it's time for me to give my kids the same memories about me. Ann I hope my experience helps you and others, if it does pass it on.

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Barbara Simpkins Syracuse,New York — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:26:12 GMT

Dear Ann..we lost our Mom on April 17. All of her loving children were at her side when she took her last breath. It was a very special time for all of us. We were blessed with the help of Hospice.
I have had a job for 27 years and I was let go last
Oct. I went to see my Mom at the Nursing Home after I stopped working and I saw her and I knew that it was all meant to be. I was blessed with 6 months of time to spend with my Mom and care for her.That
time will always be very special to me.
I miss her very much;but, I know she is in a better place now and she is no longer in pain.
Your story did help me and I thank you for that.
You are an incrediable woman. God Bless You

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Joan Voorhees, St. Louis, MO — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:28:54 GMT

Dear Anne,
I watched your Dad's story with tears streaming down my face. I, too, lost my Dad to cancer, almost three years ago. My Dad was also full of corny jokes and funny little quips that I think of now and laugh about.
Hospice was an integral part of our experience with Dad's last days. We were able to surround him with love and prayers as he slowly left us. We were able to celebrate his life at his funeral in a beautiful and loving way. My sister wrote an amazing eulogy which three of my brothers read, and my Dad was given a standing ovation in a church filled with family and friends. His death was one of the most strangely beautiful events in my life- the saddest and most profound at the same time.
Thank you for sharing the story of your Dad's amazing life and although it may sound strange, his beautiful death. Just remember that although the pain is fresh to you now, it will get easier to make it through a day without crying. And keep those memories of his corny jokes- they will let you laugh again. God bless you.

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Maritee VanNatta, Brownsburg, IN — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:33:36 GMT

Dear Ann, thank you so very much for you endearing thoughts of your father and your family members. I had wonderful memories of my father and my mother rush over me as I listened. I pray the sting will subside and all your father's life within your heart and mind will give you healing, comfort and joy.
Much love headed your way!
Martiee VanNatta

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Paula M. Bodah, North Kingstown, RI — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:35:43 GMT

Thank you so much, Ann, for your lovely tribute to your father. I lost my beloved mother in June last year, and it feels like it was just yesterday -- I miss her so intensely. I was so lucky because, when my mother was diagnosed (at age 89) with pancreatic cancer, my wonderful husband immediately said, "Why don't we bring her to our house?" My last four months with my mother were such a joy, having her here to hang out with me (I'm a magazine editor who is able to work at home. My home "office" is my den, so I would work at my desk while Mom watched endless game shows, reality shows and -- to my chagrin, Fox News, about three feet away from me. My powers of concentration are greater than I thought.) I cherish those last months with my Mom, and -- like your experience with your Dad -- I feel blessed at all she taught me about living and dying with courage, dignity and humor.

Thank you so very much
Paula

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Laurie Perz, Winthrop Harbor, IL — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:37:21 GMT

Ann, Thank you so much for sharing your story of your father with all of us. Wasn't it wonderful growing up with so much laughter in your life? He reminded me of my grandfather that I lost nearly 20 years ago. Not a day goes by that I don't think about him. I too had a really good cry while watching your story. Just remember to keep your memories of your dad close to your heart so he'll be with you the rest of your life.

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Phyllis Kunz Louisville, Ky. — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:38:56 GMT

I was moved to tears,Ann, and you have my deepest
sympathy for the loss of your father.

I could come to terms with my parents' death only
by the belief that I will see them again in due
time..

Sincerely
Phyllis Kunz

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Lisa McNeil,Alpharetta,Georgia — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:41:02 GMT

Good Evening Ann, Thank you for sharing this story about your father. My father passed away in February of 1995 and this story made me remember many things he said and did. Your father brought such joy and laughter to people around him. The video and pictures shown were so very moving and touching. I agree that having his pictures and saving what he wrote down is such treasured memories. Live your life and love the people around you. Cherish the friendships you have in your life. A truly beautiful piece Ann. You are a very special person and your father was truly a wonderful man. Thank you for sharing memories of him. Peace to you always.

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Mikal Kostic — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:41:31 GMT

There are many many other such touching stories of 'ordinary people'
that could be told. I find the 'Changing Places' series a bit
self-serving and self-adulation on the part of Brian Williams,
Maria Menounos and Ann Curry by profiling stories about themselves
and their ailing/dying parents.
These three 'celebrities' are affluent and need not seek recognition
or admiration for what they should so rightfully have done.
Profiling others less fortunate who struggled/sacrificed much harder
in providing for their parents, and going thru similar tragedy would have had more meaning.

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Andrea Wiggers, Cocoa Beach, FL — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:42:04 GMT

You, your family and NBC Nightly News should be so proud of sharing Bob Curry with us during this sad time for you. Know that he brought joy to my life even though I only knew him from seeing his profiles on the news. Thank you for reminding me how truly precious my time with my 90 & 91 year old parents is. I am grateful for your gift.

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Diane, Novi, MI — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:43:28 GMT

Ann, What a wonderful tribute to your dad. My dad (80 years old in July) is always telling corny stories and jokes too and is about to enter the hospital tomorrow, so this really hit home for me. Thanks for sharing it with us and my thoughts are with you and your family.

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Mary Rhodey — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:44:23 GMT

Dear Ann,
I just finished watching your story about your father, and I just had to write. I lost my mother when I was six. I remember her taking me to a funeral home, and having me touch a dead person, not out of meanness, but for me to know that she wasn't in pain. Whenever she talked to me, she always reminded me that I could do whatever I put my mind to, that no one could get in my way except me, and that when she did pass away, to cry for my father,and not for me losing her, for my father wouldn't know how to take care of me and my brother. I can't begin to tell you just how true those words became. Just know that I smiled a lot growing up knowing just how right she was.
When I lost my father, he had just got to see his first grand child who he nicknamed "her nibs". So at his grave site, when she had a dirty diaper, I stopped the service to change her. I could feel his approval and just smiled at everyone looking at me.
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I have always admired you for your strength, charm, humor, and passion for everyone. I have never really used anyone as an example to follow,(except for my mother), but tonight I realized that I have used you
as an example to follow.
Thank you again so much for being so real, and sharing your life with everyone.

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Pam Morris, Charleston, SC — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:45:13 GMT

Ann,

My Mother passed away from lung cancer on 15 April of this year, a few days after your Father - and as I listened to you tonight on the news, I knew everything you were speaking about - the year from my Mother's diagnosis until her death we chose to have as much face time as possible, and to face, head on, what my Mother and we as a family were going through. I saw the images of you and your family and smiled, sadly, knowing how difficult all of it really was - but how at the same time it was an experience to be proud of and honored to be a part of. The images you showed of your Father were wonderful - and I honestly couldn't imagine being on TV and talking about my Mother in the way that you talked about your Father, in other words: you did great. He would have been thrilled - and proud. And you're right - all my Mom wanted was for my brother and I to be okay - that's generally all good parents want I think. My sympathies to you and your family - it is a tough loss for all families.

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Susan Karpf, Ft. Lauderdale, FL — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:50:29 GMT

Ann,
I was so moved by your Dads' story. I lost my Dad 25 years ago and we had been estranged for many years. But we "made up" and spent a wonderful Thanksgiving before he died in February. I lost my Mom to Alzheimers in 2004 and I still miss her so much. Because of the disease we weren't able to share in all the wonderful family experiences that you and your family had. You are so fortunate to have had that quality time with your Dad. Thanks for sharing it with us.

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Ann Enos, Smithfield, RI — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:51:46 GMT

Ann,
Thank you for sharing your family's story with all of us. Your dignity, grace, and caring always comes thru no matter what you share with your audience. You make us laugh, cry, and most of all enjoy every day with renewed caring for everyone around us. I admire you and wish you and your family the best in your time of loss. You are truly a remarkable person.

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Tim Abler Milwaukee, Wisconsin — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:52:06 GMT

Ann,
Thank you for sharing this tribute and reflection about your father.
We are sorry for your loss. As always you have told us a story which speaks softly about our lives.
Peace

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g.eglesias`nepa` — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:53:35 GMT

Dear Ann, Your story on Nightly News about your father's death was very sad. I know what it's like to lose both parents, It makes `me feel very lonely in a way - and I miss my parents very much. Your father was very handsome when he was young and you look alot like him. It's easy to tell he is your father. We love you and we hope you didn't cry too much when you watched the story on Nightly News tonight, "because we did."

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Theresa Lester, Elkridge, MD — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:53:57 GMT

Ann,
Like you, I also lost my dad of cancer in April. He was 84 and I will miss him until the day I die. We didn't talk about death, he thought he could beat it until the very end. He died peacefully in his sleep with us at his bedside. He didn't stab the air with a sword but he did see a beautiful image in the ceiling that made him cry. Our Dads are at peace now, Ann. May God bless. Love, Theresa

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mary carlson, marinette, wisconsin — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:55:56 GMT

we all have sad stories. not sure why yours is on national tv. i loved my dad and he is dead. can my story be there? not sure why this is news.

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mary carlson, marinette, wisconsin — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:56:31 GMT

we all have sad stories. not sure why yours is on national tv. i loved my dad and he is dead. can my story be there? not sure why this is news.

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Judy Millard Buffalo, NY — Thu, 22 May 2008 23:59:47 GMT

Your DadA Parable of Immortality

"I am standing upon the seashore. A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength, and I stand and watch until at last she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come down to mingle with each other. Then someone at my side says, 'There she goes!'

Gone where? Gone from my sight ... that is all. She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and just as able to bear her load of living freight to the place of destination. Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when someone at my side says, 'There she goes!' there are other eyes watching her coming and their voices ready to take up the glad shouts 'Here she comes!'"

~ by Henry Van Dyke ~
's comments remined me of an essay I've used so many times during eulogy's I hope it's touching to you as well.

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Debbie Lenczyk, Orlando, Florida — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:00:39 GMT

Ann,
I lost my Dad August 6, 2006. It has been difficult for all the members of our family. He was the one that always brought us together. Truly the head of our family and also the heart. He was always telling jokes. He would stop by my office at a local dental office and I could hear the laughter all the way in the back of our office. It is his laugh that I miss the most. I gave his eulogy and tried to encourage all in attendance to "laugh and think of him". Watching your story, I would guess that your Dad would want you to do the same. Time has softened some of the pain of losing my Dad and I hope it does for you too. Laugh at any and all corny jokes and I'm sure your Dad laughs too. Thank you for sharing your story. Debbie

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Margaret Alle, Jacksonville, FL — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:07:44 GMT

Thank you so much for sharing this story about your precious, amazing father. I cried my way through the story, as my dad is 94 now, and not in the best of health, so I know our family faces time without him in the future. You were so calm, and graceful, in your interview, though it must have been so very difficult to do. I appreciate you sharing these personal, intimate moments from your family's final journey with your father. May God bless you, and your family, and hold you close now, and in the days to come.

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OneCowgirl, Texas — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:08:56 GMT

Ann: What a touching story - I'm crying! The NBC staff did a great job of putting this story together - the images, your interview - I feel your grief - you honored your father with grace & style - thank you for sharing!

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Bob Heath, Arlington, Texas — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:09:59 GMT

Anne, I lost both my parents within 6 months of each other to Cancer.I loved both of them but my Mom was my best friend,I went to her with any problems I had.I even came out her first before my Dad.I was with both my parents when they died.My father though was sedated but I know he knew I was there. I was with my mother up to the day before.
She didn't want me to be around though. She had seen her 2 Sons,my sister in law and her grand-daughter. When I told her I was going to stay an extra day, she argued with me and told me I had to go back to Texas and take care of my own family. My family was my partner and his son who was living with us. Rather than to upset her any more I gave in and left. As my plane left Connecticut for Texas, I had moist eyes as I felt I might never see her again.
The next day at work about 230 p.m. I had a deep severe pain in my stomach enough to make me bend over. When I got home,I had to call my brother because the Hospice people had call me rather than him. That is when I learned Mom had passed.
My mother went the way she wanted to. She saw her family and then saw a priest.As you said in your segment,our parents are always concerned about ou future. Ironically,My partner lost his mother on Mother Day in 1986, I lost mine the Tuesday after Mother's Day in 1995. Your segment was wonderful, Keep up the good work, your father is proud!

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Angela, Council Bluffs, IA — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:21:09 GMT

Ann,
I too lost my father to the same disease 2 1/2 years ago at age 67 after his 8 year battle. Watching your story brought back all the flood of emotions and memories. I cried through your story but was also able to laugh relating to and remembering my father's sense of humor and jokes right up to the end. I know this story was difficult but thank you for sharing and showing us the personal side. Bless you and your family.

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Norine, Sterling Heights, MI — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:21:24 GMT

Thanks, Ann, fore sharing you story on tonight's Nightly News.

Nine years ago today (May 22nd) our Dad was tragically taken from us by a bad driver. I have cared for my aging mom (now 93) ever since. I treasure every day with her and miss my Dad as much now as the day he died but know he, too, wanted nothing but for us to remain happy and healthy on this earth.

We hope you take comfort in the many people that have experienced similar circumstances.

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Casey boo boo (my dad's nick name for me) — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:28:54 GMT

Ann - thanks for sharing such a personal and difficult time in your life. As many have already said, the segment airing tonight has made me cry too, as I lost my father to cancer last September. Dad had 12 children who loved him very much, and we all had a chance to be with him before he passed on. Dad was a private person, and did not complain much, but I remember laying with him on his bed, his hand in my hand, knowing this was probably the last time I'd be able to touch and connect with this man who was my father. I was struck again by his humor and his determination to beat the devil that had him. Your last sentence tonight hit hard. To live and ultimately die with dignity - yea baby, that's what it's all about.

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Malcolm Horne,Salt Lake City,Utah — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:29:59 GMT

Dear Ann, Thank you for sharing your story about your father's passing.It is over two years since I lost my dear wife.Now I am more determined to try to pass on to my children the need to enjoy each day. Your courage is inspiring.

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Mary Torres, Albuquerque, NM — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:34:11 GMT

Thanks for this story. I, too cried during it. I lost my Daddy 12 years ago to cancer, and I miss him so much. Grief is a very difficult thing to endure. I so appreciate and respect the love I had for my Dad, and the love and respect that he had for me and for all six of his children, and grandchildren, and for my Mom. I remember a friend of mine not really understanding the grief that I was enduring when my Dad died. I feel sad for HER, because she didn't have the wonderful Dad that I had. You sound like you had a wonderful Dad, and I am sorry for your loss. I think that we have been so very fortunate to have had parents for whom we still grieve.
Take care.

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cynthia parker — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:40:13 GMT

Ann, you are such an intricate part of the fabric of the NBC NEWS family. Unfortunately, I was on my way home from work, listening to your story, and wishing I could have been watching. I want to also express my sincere appreciation of your earlier article about your sister and your mother. One can easily tell that you are ultra sensitive to the feelings and plights of others. Your children are fortunate to know a woman of strength and courage as you are; as a teacher, I can tell you that your son will benefit from your example and appreciate the tenacity and honesty with which you approach even the most delicate news stories. Your daughter could have no better role model for her own pursuits; you set the altitude for her future. Thank you for sharing your inner self; you are a REAL person to your audience, and that connects in a very personal way to everyone. I have watched your tough line with world leaders in tenuous situations, your wit and humor in lighter moments, and your compassion and empathy with stories of the heart. Will your segment be available to watch at some other juncture on msnbc? or on the Today Show? I always leave so early of a morning, that I am only able to listen while on the road...just know this story, as all the others, is masterfully done. By the way, I have taped segments of you to use with my English class when we study orators and eloquence in public speaking. You can be assured that your attributes as an extraordinary newscaster are obvious and noted by the students and a model of distinction. With care,

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Terre Musselman, Telford, PA — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:41:06 GMT

Ann, Your story and mine parallel in many ways. On April 2nd I lost my darling, my dad, after 5 years of dementia. He was a gentleman and a gentle man, one of the great loves of my life, a storyteller and a lover of corny jokes. Tears fill my eyes as I write this. Thank you for sharing your story. I am sure you feel as I do: that you are blessed for having been loved by this man.

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cynthia parker — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:47:09 GMT

Ann, I want to add a comment to an earlier message I sent... like so many others who have commented, I too lost my father at a very early age (nearly 5) from a tragic accident. Although my story would not necessarily make the Nightly News, I recall a story you did not too long ago, when you said that you wanted to use your celebrity to help others in ways that most of us are unable to do. You just happen to be that national figure who has the vehicle to speak on behalf of so many who have lost someone dear, and because you identify with others in such a natural, connective manner, it is as if each of us is speaking through your words and voice. Thank you for identifying with so many of us on such a pesonal level. Your level of professionalism is highly revered and appreciated. I speak of you often to may students, who have benefited from your many documentaries and features, from world events to everyday folks. Thanks, Ann! :)

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Michelle DeHass, Aurora, Il — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:48:32 GMT

Ann, You handled yourself, as always with such grace, poise, and yes, even humor....your Dad would be very proud! It has been 15 years since my Dad has passed away and still to this day I miss him with every fiber of my being! His strange, and crazy sense of humor that sometime's only our family could understand, or love is what we miss the most.
My Dad died of the same type of Brain Cancer that Ted Kennedy is now batteling and totally unexependly I began weeping when I learned of Ted's tumor. We had 4 months from diagnosis until we lost my Dad but in that time we took a trip to our beloved spot in Hawaii for one last look at Paradise, we enjoyed our favorite sight's, sounds, and taste's of Chicago, but mostly we sat around and talk about how luckly we were that we had eachother, if only for a short time. Dad died at the age of 54, I was 22 and my mom, just a young....but strong and wonderfully devoted 48 years old.
The physical pain of losing a parent eventually fade's, but the emontional remain's and partly I think that is a good thing. That means, we were so blessed to have such an incredible force in our life that we will carry that love, and some crazy joke's and odd saying's with us, and even onto the next generations.
Ann, my heart and prayer's go out to you.
Love,
Michelle, Aurora, Il.
If I can leave you with one of my Dad's line's....the next time your driving and a bug hit's the window.....shout out...."Wow, that took gut's"

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Lynn Rast Wake Forest, NC — Fri, 23 May 2008 00:50:02 GMT

Dear Ann, The memories we keep, the momories we share--of those so near and dear to us are windows into our souls and hearts. I have just reread a hand written letter to my father in 1984 ( I was 37 y.o.) as he celebrated his 10 year sobriety. He carried that letter in his wallet until the day he died--August 28, 2006. Shortly after his death his wife informed me there would be no funeral, no memorial----and in the sweep of her pen she ask that I never return to my father's home; there was nothing there for me. The most important chapter of my life ended the day my daddy died--and then I was told to disappear. I was not given the chance to eulogize my father, to thank him for the beautiful days we shared, to forgive him for the sad days we walked through. It was beautiful to see how your family wished your dad Bon Voyage. I am sure it made him happy to see the joy you shared with each other in the celebration of his life. I do not know what became of my father's ashes,nor the treasures of his life; but watching your story tonight brought me some peace. I am sure my father knows how much I miss him and love him and, hopefully, one day I will be able to allow my grief closure....It is still a long journey ahead. L. Rast

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Maggie T, New York, NY — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:00:38 GMT

Ann,
Thank you for sharing this touching story. My father passed away in November of 2006 and much like your father had a wonderful sense of humor. He struggled for 6 years after a massive stroke and continued to tune in every morning to see what Katie, Matt, Ann and Al were up to on the Today show. Although as I watched this story tears fell down my face, it brought back wonderful memories of my father. Thank you for sharing and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your familiy.

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Michelle DeHass, Aurora, Il — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:03:17 GMT

Mary Carlson,
I'm sorry your sorry bitter, and you missed the point of the news segment. Yes, we all love our father, and those of us that have lost them have stories to tell. That was not the point.
The point was to highlight, and get people talking about just how precious life is, how all of us need to remeber to stop and take picture's, spend time with our families while we have them, don't wait until they are gone to remember the good time's.
Don't take your saddness over the loss of your father, or whatever your issue's are on Ann.
Shame on You!!!!!

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E. Richards, San Francisco, CA — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:03:44 GMT

Extremely touching piece Ann. Your parents did you proud, raising such a fine woman. You did your dad proud, sharing his last days, which your family met with such grace.

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Jerry Michael Martinez Jr, Fresno, California — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:10:17 GMT

Just watching that segment about your fathers fight with cancer inspired me so much. Thank you for being able to share this story, as I'm sure it has touched everyone who watched it. I myself am 23 years old and just by what was shown about your father has opened my eyes on how I now view life and how to live it. Not to live without fear, but to live with fierceness and Laughter. Thanks you so much...

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Rosemarie Kiernan Manasquan, NJ — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:10:34 GMT

Dear Ann,
I too lost my dad this past December. Your story was sad and beautiful because it showed your love for him. No one knows what it is like to lose a father until you go through it yourself. This week end I will celebrate Memorial Day at the Veteran's Cemetery in NJ where my dad is buried. I am able to get through this rough time in my life because of family, faith, and friends. God Bless you and your family, and knowing my dad who would talk to everyone, he is probably talking and having a good laugh with your dad.

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Cathy Herrick, Hampshire, IL — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:11:28 GMT

Ann,

Thank you for such a wonderful story - we thought you were telling our story -We too have had our precious Dad taken from us (4-29-08) - as we all have said way too soon, we weren't done with him yet - but he is in our hearts forever, he is that funny one-liner, he is in the faces of his grandchildren, he is in all those people who mourn with us. We have wonderful memories that no one can take away as I am sure your family does too..Thank you again...

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Bill Specht,Phoenix,Az — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:25:28 GMT

Dear Ms Curry,I have always thought you have so much class with dignity,but watching the segment about your dad passing show's the inner strength you have.I'm not ashamed to say i cried,seeing dad-what an awesome man,that picture at the end of the segment showed the love in his eye's.It brought back memories of my dad passing, then my mom.The one thing for sure, there is no "Closure", we miss them everyday.May you and your family be blessed with his memory,and Ms Curry,God Bless You and soften your loss.

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Allan Joy, Palm Springs, California — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:28:58 GMT

Ann,

My eyes are still brimming with tears after seeing your story, as well as that of your father. Your work, over the years, over many programs and stories, has ALWAYS touched me intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.

Your family's story tonight, however, is indeed special. You’ve never failed to bring a message of hope, even in the most daunting circumstances. Ann, you have often inspired me: your sense of dignity, professionalism, and capability to unravel the facets of your family’s story or the scope of human experience, whether private tragedy or public celebration.

Thank you, Ann Curry. Nervousness? Understood and respected. Embarrassed? Appreciated, in terms of your point-of-view and experience. My experience and perspective is quite different in my thoughts of you and your work: one of honor, one of gratitude, and one of a sincere sense of courage.

Thank you, Bob Curry! You raised a daughter who is an obvious reflection to a great man (I’ll take the opportunity here too, Ann, to thank your mom!). I am more than proud of your daughter and her accomplishments over time. Ann reminds me, in constant measure, to never settle for anything mediocre in life.

Thank you, Bob Curry, for sharing the sparkle of your eye in such a profound and public way!!! Thank you for sharing your family in such a way as to remind each of us to love one another, rising to the occasion of greatness in both family and community.

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Michael Bush, Tempe, AZ — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:30:08 GMT

Ann,

I just watched your heartfelt report on the loss of your dad. My father passed over 10 years ago and I still feel the loss. Recently my mother-in-law passed after months in hospice care. I cannot relate how wonderful the folks working in hospice care are and I commend them and pray for them daily for the work they do. I know I would not be able to touch lives the way they do each and every day.

Thank you and your family for your courage and your sharing of such a needed story.

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Lucy V. Santos, Modesto, CA — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:34:45 GMT

Hi Ann, my condolences to you and your family. Your father has left a wonderful legacy in you. It is very apparent watching you every day and your graciousness with others. You also seem to quite often have a beautiful smile on your face that looks just like his.

Thank you for sharing-it's help!!

Lucy

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Donna Zeolla, Syracuse, New York — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:34:56 GMT

Ann,

You gave so many of us a lasting gift. Thank you for opening up your home to our souls. Those of us caring for elderly parents are strengthened by the company of gracious, loving and courageous people like you and your loved ones. God bless your Dad. I am sure he is in a good place.

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Tara Cottle, Ashland, Oregon — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:37:11 GMT

Dear Ann,
I first met your father and mother at a YMCA Sunday tea and dance. My father-in-law, Richard Cottle, is the leader of the Easy Valley Eight band that plays in Ashland, Oregon. Your parents were delightful! Your father was so charming! They sure knew how to cut a rug!
I dearly loved the piece you shared with us all! My father is slowly dying from metastasized cancer. He shares that same spirit, strength, and fear that your father expressed! It is a blessing to me to hear from them that sacred voice that echoes throughout the ages.
To share those photos of your father, to see in his eyes the depth of emotion is powerful!
My heart sends love and peace to your mother and your family!

With great emotion,
Tara Cottle
Ashland, Oregon

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Marilyn Johnson — Fri, 23 May 2008 01:44:02 GMT

Thank You so much Ann,
Your story touched me so deeply. One month ago, my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimers. I am 46 years old, the youngest of 4, she is 79. The grief I feel has been so immense. Adding to that the death of 2 uncles and my brother having a heart attack (all within one month), and for the last 16 years having been a single mother. Then 4 years ago, my most "perfect" son who was 17 at the time was diagnosed "schizafffective" (bipolar/schizophrenic), so my proverbial plate has been so full, I have been so out of touch, surviving... so the worse news then besides my son's illness was my mother's diagnosis of Alzheimers. Your story about living and dying with honor and love has brought me to complete tears, and I think a bit of "letting go". My 2 sisters and brother and I all want to spend as much time with her as we can too, but all live in different places, have family, and I. certainly not the means to take off work and fly to Iowa to be with her. The sadness is so immense. But I'm left thinking, well how can I honor and love her while she's still here? (and keep my sanity at the same time dealing with my son's illness), and well, I just want to thank you for your sharing your tender, loving story. I have always admired you, and have been a loyal NBC News watcher with my mother since I was a small girl. Anyway, probably none of what I said made any sense. But nonetheless, I want to thank you for sharing your story about your father. I just admire you so much. I pray to have equal grace and dignity while dealing with my own "life issues", hopefully laughing along the way.

A loyal Arizona admirer (still crying),

Marilyn Johnson
Chandler Arizona

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J.V. Miller Seattle, Washington — Fri, 23 May 2008 02:04:15 GMT

I just watched your poignant story on your Dad's last days and was deeply moved. I lost my husband a short time ago to the same insidious disease. He was a man much like your Dad. He wielded his sense of humor like a sword, cutting through fear and pain everywhere from our living room to the emergency room. Our family, like yours, chose to spend every minute we could with him. We took pictures. We told and retold his jokes from the cheezy to the inappropriate. We threw parties, the last just eight days before he died. His memorial was the grandest party of the year with great jazz, lots of good food, and the retelling of all his corny jokes.
Watching you, your Dad and your family validated the choices we made to learn to live from the one who was dying. Thank you, Ann. It took courage to give us such a gift in so public a setting. You enriched all of us who had the opportunity to experience your family's very private moments.

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Nancy Wilda, Everett, WA — Fri, 23 May 2008 02:18:57 GMT

Hello Ms. Curry. I remember seeing the first story about your dad and all I could think was "Wow, what a great relationship they share". When I watched your story this evening I was moved by how seemingly at peace he was to cross over. May we all enjoy such peace. He was very lucky to have you in his life, Ms. Curry...and you, him.

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Anna — Fri, 23 May 2008 02:30:58 GMT

Ann:

You are SO brave to let all this be on TV. You have shared your live with others so they can relate and relive hopefully happy memories.

I ALWAYS enjoy your report especially from the Congo! You are ONE of the BEST female reporters/anchors on air.

Bests to you always!

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Republic, MO — Fri, 23 May 2008 03:07:52 GMT

Ann and all the NBC crew. I can't express how much this story meant to me. I missed the story on the evening news due to my work commute, but my husband was very touched by it and wanted to make sure I checked out the website to see if it was on the site. I know this story was about your dad and I can only imagine your loss, but my husband is stage 4 lung cancer and is 54 in a couple of weeks. We've been through 5 boughts of chemo and all the crazy stuff it brings and in the last week, he has finally decided enough is enough. He is like your father and faces everything with a smile and a joke. I just want to watch this piece over and over again to remind myself not to get bogged down in the sorrow now. He will face this like your father - With humor, what is life without it, and strength for all he will leave behind. Thank you so much for sharing this difficult time in your life.

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LEILANI S,YUBA CITY,CA. — Fri, 23 May 2008 03:08:53 GMT

ALOHA ANN....WHAT A WORK OF ART,A BEAUTIFUL STORY OF LOVE AND COURAGE!!I TOO LOST MY FATHER IN MARCH 2006 WITH THE SAME FORM OF CANCER,NEEDLESS TO SAY IT BROUGHT A FLOOD OF EMOTION AS I WATCHED,TEARS STREAMING ENDLESSLY DOWN MY FACE.MAHALO[THANK YOU]ANN,FOR YOUR WISDOM,EMPATHY,COMPASSION AND LOVING WAYS!!I WISH I COULD HAVE BEEN CLOSER TO MY DAD AS YOU WERE WITH YOURS...ALTHOUGH UNSPOKEN MANY TIMES,I KNOW WE BOTH HAD A DEEP LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER.TO EVERYONE READING THESE COMMENTS,WHO ARE FORTUNATE TO STILL HAVE YOUR PARENTS...IF YOU MUST BE THE "FIRST" TO SAY...I LOVE YOU DAD/MOM....DO IT NOW....ANN,GOD BLESS YOU AND COMFORT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...WITH THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS......LEILANI....ALOHA'OE..."UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN".

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C Mitchell, DuPont, Washington — Fri, 23 May 2008 03:11:14 GMT

Dear sweet Ann,
Hats off to you for having the courage to tell this story. As a reporter I'm sure this was hard. I understand your feeling of embarassment. But the message is an important one to tell. I'm watching my parents take care of my grandmothers, and the balancing act they face. I watched both my grandfathers pass on with dignity. It's a very hard lesson in life, to watch someone die with dignity, but an important one. You are by far the best journalist America has. Thank you for sharing a very painful and personal story about your family. Rest assured you're not alone in your grief. I cried when I saw your father's story tonight. I cried again when watching it online. I am sorry for your loss, but know he will always be with you in spirit, and in laughter. My grandpa was always telling funny jokes. He died eight years ago. To this day, I can still hear his voice, laughing at jokes and hillarious stoires about the simple things in life. As corny and as simple as they were, I tell those same stories to my kids. They never knew their great grandfather personally, but they do know his humor.
Blessings to you always.

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Nancy Pulham, Spokane Valley, Wa — Fri, 23 May 2008 03:58:54 GMT

Dear Ann,
So many poignant stories that others have already sent! Your story touched me so, not only as a woman who has already experienced the death of both of my parents 18 years ago, but as a Hospice nurse. I see on a daily basis the benefit people have from being open in talking about their illness & dying process and having Hospice support.
You and all of your family are so fortunate that you had the open dialogues that you did. Such special times, that you indeed will always remember and hold close to your heart!
Your parents were very special people as manifested by the daughter you are now and your children will benefit from the parent you are to them.
At a luncheon we had today to say good bye to our Hospice chaplain, someone mentioned a saying something to the affect of: "Come again, for when I am with you, I like the person I am." I think I can see in you that you had that emotion towards your Dad and know that we as a viewing audience of yours, feel that way about you also.
Thank you for your courage to share your story with millions. Peace be with you and your family.

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Gretchen Wolf Houston, Texas — Fri, 23 May 2008 04:02:31 GMT

Ann,
Thank you so much for such a beautiful, touching story, I cried watching it just like most of the folks that have written. You did a wonderful job and I know your dad was so proud of you. I lost my daddy 3/28/08 unexpectedly in his sleep,but he lived a beautiful life much like your dad and we are so blessed to have had them in our lives long enough to realize how much they sacrificed for us growing up. You lost your dad on what would have been my dads 86th birthday. I am sorry for your loss and pray you and your family find the peace and strength to carry on his legacy as I am trying to do with my family. Wonderful clip, Ann-- thank you for sharing.

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Doreen "Holmes" Marcial — Fri, 23 May 2008 04:30:15 GMT

Ann, First let me say how sorry I am to hear of your dad's passing. I lost my Dad the end of February, (Bill Holmes), and know how hard it is to be without them. Since my father and yours held a small bond, I wanted you to know your father won't be forgotten, as we all have our memories.

Your story on the news was very poignant, and took a lot of courage. Thanks for sharing. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Julie D Howard, Long Island New York — Fri, 23 May 2008 04:38:48 GMT

Thank you Ann Curry.
We now know one of the sources for your grace, humanity, joy for life and great warmth we see each day on our television screens. Thank you for sharing such a personal story. I am sure that many who have lost one or both parents like myself were taken back to wonderful memories of Mom and Dad because of your story. Thank you.

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Hao Zheng, Evanston, IL — Fri, 23 May 2008 05:30:01 GMT

Seriously, NBC should stop airing news that only affects couple of people. I don't really care what Ann Curry went through or about her parents, not that it doesn't matter. Everyone have their own stories and hardships that they went through in their lifetime. Life is not meant to be easy. News time spend on those pointless subjects that does not affect most of Americans is waste of my time as well as others. What we need is more news story of events going on around the world or United States/Economy. Hence, I strong suggest that NBC stop airing "trading places," and start doing what they were paid to do.

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David S. Calef, Spofford, NH — Fri, 23 May 2008 08:30:49 GMT

Thank you, Ann, so much for allowing your private story of loss to be shared when asked. As I realized when I lost my dad, no one teaches us how to lose our parents. We will never forget the wonderful things about our parents. Over time the loss hurts less and the good memories grow ever stronger. Over the years I see more and more how much my parents have taught me, how much I emulate their way of life. Thank you, Ann and thank you NBC News for telling the power story that is so personal to each one of us.

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Weston Jensen, Köln, Deutschland formerly SLC, Utah — Fri, 23 May 2008 09:09:21 GMT

Ann-

To appreciate even fallen petals, This is 'Mononoaware.'

God Bless.

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Weston Jensen, Köln, Deutschland formerly SLC, Utah — Fri, 23 May 2008 09:13:06 GMT

To appreciate even fallen petals, This is 'Mononoaware.'

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Bonnie Silver, Grant, MI — Fri, 23 May 2008 09:39:42 GMT

Ann,
Your story was tender, honest,and meaningful to
anyone who loves deeply. Your Dad was fortunate
to be cherished. You were fortunate to have such
a parent and role model. Thanks for sharing.

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Dana Roberts, Norcross, GA — Fri, 23 May 2008 09:51:52 GMT

Ann,

And when it is your time, the memories of your Mom and Dad, your family, and old friends both alive and dead will bring comfort. Your heart will turn to some old, familiar place that you call "home." Then, just as your father said, the spirit will set sail to your real Home. Don't worry. God's goin' to let the faces you have grown to love welcome you with smiles, and laughter and jokes. I'm only sixty and love to joke. Some immortal day in the future I plan to greet my children and grandaughter with this: "What took you so long?" . . . of course with tears of Heavenly joy too.

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LDC,Canada — Fri, 23 May 2008 09:57:11 GMT

Truly every moment is very precious at time when your parents departed you!
I lost my Father more than 30 years ago but still those times I spent with him were the most cherished of my lifetime! I wish time could have more generous for him to share the convenience inlife am having at this time!
Ann,watching your video brought tears in my eyes as I also recall the last time I have been with my Father!

Thank you for sharing!
Munotte ( this is what my Father calls me)

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Bruce Glens Falls, NY — Fri, 23 May 2008 12:06:52 GMT

Ann,
This will be long so please sit and relax and savor in the fact that you have so much courage.
As I watched NBC Nightly news last night Brian Williams introduced your story. For me it was profound, having lost my father in 1989, suddenly, and my mother of cancer in 1993. But while watching your story last night it was special because at my house were my in laws. I had just returned from the doctor with my father in law who is at the end of life stage of heart and kidney failure. Its amazing what we sacrifice for parents, and now in my instance after taking care of my mother, my father in law too.
What you say is so true, about face time, and talking, and taking pictures, and writing things down. And surprisingly enough what you said about what your daughter said about your father funeral. One of my younger brothers said the same thing about my mothers funeral too. I remember my mother being disagnosed with cancer almost immediately after my father passed away. She chose NOT to have any form of therapy, and new that her days were numbered. It however, was no means a death sentence to her. She travelled by herself, reconnected with childhood friends, and got her house fixed up the way she always wanted it. It wasn't until the last 6 months of her life when she became debilitated. I moved in with her, and thank god for my supportive wife. She died on a Saturday morning, and she sat up that morning and began to sink into a coma I wanted to make her comfortable. The last thing my mother said as I tried to lay her back down was, "Bruce, leave me the hell alone". That phrase typified my mothers life.
My father in law has had heart problems for years and some lengthy hospital stays in this time. I would camp out for days there, washing and shaving in the hospital bathroom and then going to work the next morning. I have bathed my father in law, practically carried him into emergency rooms, and well w/o drawing this out too much, you can fill in the blanks.
Its ironic how we look at how we treat our parents, as the caretakers we are. My younger brother passed away on November 2004, leaving three young daughters. I consider myself their caretaker too.
As caretakers we don't look for the pat on the back, or any recognition at all. We forsake our comfort to ensure the ones we are caring for have theirs.

Yes we are all ok, despite our exhaustion, and losses.
In doing so, we lay the foundation for intergrity in our children, hoping we never will have to call on them to take care of us.

So Ann, thank you for your story, and your courage.
Peace,
Bruce Cabana

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Rev. Haydn McLean — Fri, 23 May 2008 12:18:42 GMT

Mrs. Curry,

Thank you for sharing your family's poignant story of your father's last illness and passing. I was unable to view the entire story during the broadcast due to the emotion it provoked. You are to be commended for your courage in sharing your story with us. I also commend NBC News for its Trading Places series, which has become some of the most moving and memorable viewing on television. Thank you for your contribution in reminding us of the important things in life.

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Chandler Bainter, Louisville KY — Fri, 23 May 2008 12:28:06 GMT

Thank you for sharing. I lost my PaPa to cancer over ten years ago. Now my grandmother begins to show signs of her own ship turning. As a family I feel we all must face it, laugh with it, enjoy the process and not dread it. Yes Ann, you have shown others that it's OK to have a fear about death, but it does not have to be primary -- family, fun and togetherness. I will take more pictures. I must.

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Amy Bowman, LaGrange, Missouri — Fri, 23 May 2008 13:52:07 GMT

Anne,
Thank you so much for sharing this touching story...as I watched it memories of my father came flooding back as the tears flowed. I lost my Mom to a sudden heart attack at age 23 and then only months later we found out that my Dad had stage 4 cancer I lost him at age 27. He too was a funny, loving and open man who wanted to share what he was going through with all who knew him. He fought the fight with dignity, caring, and openness for all to see that he would fight all the way to the end of his battle. He too went over each detail of just how he wanted things at the end. We would not have been able to do everything he would have wanted without the help of Hospice. They truly were a blessing to our family. People say they understand what you are going through but unless they have been down that path with a loved one fighting and rejoicing in each step and moment they cannot truly understand what and how cancer touches each loved one be it family member or friend in their own way. Dad wanted a celebration of life at his funeral, and that is what it was. We shared stories, played his kind of music and did things just he way he wanted. And in our hearts we knew that he was happy with the way that he fought and ended his battle! It is almost 10 years later and I miss them just as much today as I did the day that it happened. But I am thankful that I told him each day that I loved him and I knew he would always be with me.
Someone once told me to look at each sunrise and sunset and I would see my loved one looking down and smiling upon me. Take the time to look to the sky and you too will feel as if they are looking down on you.
Thank you again for sharing your story. I have always enjoyed the way that you report the new, and this made me feel that much closer to you. My prayers are with you and your family as you being the process of moving on without forgetting that special person…Your DAD!!

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Gayle, Raleigh NC — Fri, 23 May 2008 13:56:03 GMT

Ann,

I lost my 84 year old mother in December to small cell lung cancer less than 6 months after her diagnosis. Although it's a terrible cancer, she insisted on fighting as hard as possible and denied any possibility that she might not succeed. She finally had a massive stroke as a result of the cancer. I'm sorry that my Dad and all the family did not have the same mutual acceptance and closure that your family did. Please continue to be appreciative for the decisions your family made towards acceptance--it gave you precious time to talk and share.

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Marcia Robertson Matteson, IL — Fri, 23 May 2008 14:01:09 GMT

I trully understand Ann:

I watched the segment on your dad and I was very touched.. My dad was diagnosed with a rare blood cancer; Mylofibrosis (a form of leukemia) at the age of 79.. My family was shocked because he was always the rock of the family. As a african american family coming up we didn't know what being poor was, even though we were.. My parents always worked and provided for me and my other two siblings. My dad also helped his two sisters raise their children.. My dad was a historian, but he was a blue collar worker.. We always used to tease him about he should of been a history professor, we learned a lot about history, black histroy, american history, not out of school books but from my dad... When I watched your segement your dad reminds me of mine.. Two strong men who loved their famailies.. The last month of my dads life he was in hospice care at home, he battled this disease for 11 months, and it was hard for us but he was like your dad still telling jokes to the end and worrying about the grandchildren, children, nieces, nephews, etc....My dad passed away January 6, 2007 he said: I want to celebrate life and a new year with the family before the takes me home...

God bless you and your family Ann

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Elaine,Huntington,WV — Fri, 23 May 2008 14:20:45 GMT

Ann,
Thank you for sharing your families special time with the nation.
I was in the right place at the right time watching the segment last night.
I shed tears at your story. That's something I could not do nine months ago when I was holding my moms' hand.

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Sandy Banker North Port, Florida — Fri, 23 May 2008 14:38:56 GMT

Your piece done on the life of your father brought me to tears as I knew it would. I lost both my parents within 5 months of each other and though it has been 4 years, it is still very difficult. There is not a day that I don't think of them. I did not get pictures at the last, and so wish I did. They both suffered so at the last, due to neglect of our healthcare systems in nursing homes. There is so much regret on my part. I want you to know, that I am a big fan of yours and the piece you did on your father was so inspiring. You are so brave

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Leah Pullin, Evansdale, IA — Fri, 23 May 2008 15:23:55 GMT

Dear Ann,
Thank you for the heartrending story of your wonderful father and the difficult end of his life. Although I have never met him, nor you, I felt that I had through the touching depiction the video camera revealed. As I am reaching the one year anniversary of my father's own death (05/25/07) due to losing his battle against lung cancer, your story really touched home. I cried, loved the humor your father had as it was so much like my own father's, and had to call my mom. I'm nine months pregnant with my dad's first grandchild from his marriage to my mother, and your story brought a ton of feelings to the surface. Thank you again.

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Leslie Roseberry, Tustin, CA — Fri, 23 May 2008 16:07:09 GMT

Ann- the story was just wonderful and brought me to tears. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom 2 1/2 years ago when my daughter was 6 months old. I miss her so much and tell my girl about her all the time. You are right about documenting parents. Just last week my sisters and I sat down with my dad and video-taped him discussing his service in WWII. We'd always talked about doing that, and at 88 years old, I knew we might not have many opportunities. We started thinking about it last year when we took him to the WWII Memorial in DC and it was like being with a rock star. Everyone wanted to shake his hand We learned much and loved hearing him talk for 2 solid hours.

You, Brian Williams, Tom Brokaw, and Tim Russert have done much to show how precious our parents are and how much we can learn from them and each other.
We indeed are all in this life together and I thank you for showing that despite how different our lives are, we are much the same. Bless you and your family.

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Julie Knutson, Summerville, SC — Fri, 23 May 2008 16:48:40 GMT

Eastmountainsouth sings a song called "Mark's song", it is what I listened to over and over again after I lost my father. He was orphaned and raised by his oldest sister. He went on to become successful in the plastics industry. But he always wanted us to know the reason for his drive....family.
My brother is a colonel in the air force. My sister is a doctor. My oldest brother is a principal and I am an autism specialist. He supported each of us to find our way in this world. He wanted us to choose a career we loved rather than love a paycheck.
My father vowed to see my daughter's first birthday. She's named after him....and her life gave him the strength to fight cancer to spend more time with her. We faked birthdays so he could let go.
But he always knew. The morning after Tori's first birthday...my father passed away. He told awful saturday morning jokes...but as many times as he told them...we still laughed. He surprised us with odd luxuries we never expected from a conservative man. He was one of the few people who cared about the kids I worked with in a non-judgemental way. He say the beauty inside of my autistic kids. His skull had been removed for the back portion of his head (Ted Kennedy) and it had collapsed in a bit in order for tumor to be removed. I told my students about this before Special Olympics so that they wouldn't be frightened of my dad's head. Ben....
walked up to my dad at the games...shook his hand and look at the back of his head. He waited a few moments and then said..."At least it wasn't the front of your face." My dad laughed so hard....
and up until the day he passed away...you could hear him whisper at times...at least it isn't the front of your face.

Victor Ole Knutson. I would have liked to have him longer in my life...but I am so thankful for the memories he left me. He supported me 100% and that goes with me in every endeavor.

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Christann Higley, Estes Park, Colorado — Fri, 23 May 2008 17:24:57 GMT

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I lost both of my parents within the past six months, and I know how hard it is to watch them die. We are having a family reunion this summer with all the children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren here in the Rocky Mountains that my parents loved. We will most certainly do lots of crying and laughing together (my dad also told lots of corny jokes) as we remember my wonderful parents.

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Connie Cutlip, Hillsboro, West Virginia — Fri, 23 May 2008 17:36:11 GMT

Dear Ann,

I have always admired your spirit in watching you on Today through the years, but never more than now. I have lost both my parents, within 10 months of each other and I was with both of them when they passed. I can say that their final years were absolutely precious to me and it was when the situation was reversed and they really needed me, that I gained the most from all the time I was blessed in having with them. It has been 5 years since Daddy and 4 years since Mom passed away, and I believe you never get over this loss, you just learn to accept it. I still dissolve in tears at the most unexpected times. It's my prayer for you and your family that you take comfort in your memories and one another.

Nervousness. Embarrassment. Hope.

Jenny Phillips, St. Michaels, MD — Fri, 23 May 2008 17:50:43 GMT

Ann,
Thank you for sharing your story...it couldn't have come at a better time. I am 36 and my Dad was just diagnosed with inoperable pancreatic cancer with a dismal outlook. Watching your story brought on a lot of emotions and made me think even more about how each day with my Dad is precious and that I need to take in every moment. Your story has touched many and is appreciated.

Nervousness. Embarrassment. Hope.

Ann Schmidt-Fogarty, Vacaville, California — Fri, 23 May 2008 18:55:01 GMT

Ann,

Both my parents died just four days apart in November.

My dad was a larger than life, corny-joke sort of person as well. I held him in my arms when he died, one tear slidig down his cheek and he was gone.

It's raw, real life stuff with all the senses involved. I know how brave it was for you to open your wounds about this loss, and so appreciate knowing that this expected time of grief is something we can never prepare for--and that there are others going through the same thing. Thank you so much for your courage. Your father reminded me so much of my own.

Nervousness. Embarrassment. Hope.

Nancy Kelso, Tyler, TX — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:06:18 GMT

Ann,
Hearing your story this morning stirred such emotion in me. I lost my Daddy to cancer as well on December 16, 2004. I cannot begin to tell you how parallel your story is with what I experienced - your very words have been mine as well...he taught me a lot about living, but he also taught me a lot about dying. I have so much admiration for you in doing that for your Daddy. I know he was a special man...God Bless You and all of your family - and thanks for sharing.

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JoAnn Aquiningoc, Oahu, Hawaii — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:13:59 GMT

Hafa Adai and Aloha Ann,

Thank you for sharing your beautiful, heartfelt story with us; I can see and feel all the love you and your family have for your father. Funny how his "quirky" sense of humor will forever live in your memories. My dad would make this funny little sound whenever he laughed; now, we hear it in the laughter of the grandkids and just laugh! Papa must be smiling in heaven!

My dad passed away 7 years ago and i wasn't there to spend some time with him. My husband retired from the Navy and we made Hawaii our home away from home (Guam). When my mom called about my dad's passing, the first thing i asked was if he was afrad, afraid to die. She could only say "i think so."

For more than 12 years, my dad was a hemodialysis patient, managing to get himself up for the 3-4 hour treatment, then back to work for the Federal Government. Throughout the years I saw the look of saddness in his eyes whenever the grandkids and family were around. They loved him so much! I'd tell him i love him and he would softly say, "I love you too" then hand the phone to my mom.

I love my dad and miss him so very much. I'm an only daughter with 3 brothers and my dad was a man of few words; as i look back at the few times my dad gave me a heart to heart talk, i would forever cherish those them.

I would like for everyone to love and embrace each other. And live each day like it were our last. Cherish and respect our elders for they deserve it.

Much Aloha,
JoAnn Aquiningoc

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George J. Lambert, Kennebunk, ME — Fri, 23 May 2008 19:37:37 GMT

Dear Ann, Thank you for such a courageous piece on the recent death of your father. Your willingness to share a personal insight into your private world at the time of great sadness demonstrated to me what I have always believed: you are one very classy lady,strong and resolute, yet empathetic and vulnerable. In my opinion, this segment was one of the most moving that I have seen on television that is too often devoid of authentic human emotions. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

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Phyllis Coffman, Denver CO — Fri, 23 May 2008 20:11:03 GMT

While watching Anne Curry’s piece on her father’s last days, we were especially pleased to hear her recommendations concerning documenting one’s parents’ lives. We have a small company in the Denver, CO area, which specializes in the creation of personal documentaries, especially of those with Alzheimer’s disease. Obviously, this can be a difficult task, but we have found that through the extensive use of personal photographs and memorabilia, the memories come rushing back, even to those in the middle stages of the disease.

We’ve tried very hard to get out the message regarding the urgency of this type of personal documentation, but have been frustrated by an apparent denial of its importance. We understand that, when first confronted with a loved one’s diagnosis of Alzheimer’s, the creation of this type of record is not a “first concern”. However, we are grateful for Ms. Curry’s noting its importance, and her bravery sharing her very personal story with your audience.

To this end, we offer not only our professional interviewing and filmmaking services, but also a willingness to speak with and offer free advice to anyone wishing to create their loved ones’ life stories, but who don’t necessarily know how to get started on their own.

We work with the local Alzheimer’s Association, who try to help us get the word out, and we were featured in a segment produced by our local NBC affiliate (KUSA, channel 9, Denver), but there is still a definite reluctance or perception of the need for this type of permanent record. So we were very happy to see a story about this need presented on a national broadcast.

We hope that many people saw this story and will heed Ms. Curry’s advice to document their loved ones’ life stories and her father’s hope that this recommendation would help others. This is a comment we have heard many times from our own clients – they want their stories to be of help to others in similar circumstances.

If you would like to see what we do and what we would like to help others do please see our website: www.memoriesforthetelling.com

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K Drake, Columbus, Ohio — Fri, 23 May 2008 21:19:04 GMT

Ann,
How fitting that we saw the piece about your Dad so close to Memorial Day. He served his country well and had it not been for that service, we wouldn't have the gift of YOU. Your father had an inspiring spirit, and though it lives on in you now, you inherited it long before he died.

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Julie Grant, Bridgeport CT — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:00:49 GMT

Dear Miss Curry, you are one of my best journalist and I am just writing to you for sharing your personal story with us. Thank you so very much, and god bless you and your family.

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Erin Montanarelli, Seattle Washington — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:20:17 GMT

Dear Ms Curry, I wanted to tell you how much I admire you and praise you for airing such a beautiful story. I dont think I have cried like that since my father died seven years ago, June 21st.I sobbed because of your story and its so fresh for you but my dad was so simuliar. Grumpy at times, but always had a corny joke. He was elegant and provided our family with beautiful memories especailly his death. I have a difficult time conveying this to people but it was the happiest death I had ever expierenced. He was strong. He was scared. He was ready.He was in so much pain, but ready to go to that next life. His wind changed and we were all there. It was the most beautiful gift. On a happy note, I am sure my dads jokes were cornier than yours. Ha Ha.
Thanking you for filling my living room with compassion and class.
Erin Montanarelli
Seattle, Wash

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Jamie, Salt Lake, Utah — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:30:33 GMT

I lost my father as well when I was 18 so, I felt the need to extent condolences to Curry on that. To her I can only say that one never deals with the loss of a parent, they simply move on because, it's all that can be done. Again, condolences.

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Jan Denney,Woodbury, TN — Fri, 23 May 2008 22:53:41 GMT

It is a shame, in my opinion, that you have to be"old school" to show the love and respect Ann Curry had for her father. What a beautiful and touching story.

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Claudia — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:29:39 GMT

Dear Ms. Curry.Your story about your father was very touching. I was envious of the emotions you shared as I had nothing like that with my own father. The pictures of your father were great and he really looked like a very, very nice man. The one showing your mother with him in the hospital showed a true picture of love. Thanks for sharing

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Pam Plant, New Bedford, MA — Fri, 23 May 2008 23:53:55 GMT

Dear Ann,
Thank you for sharing your story. My dad is now on Hospice and I am caring for him as well as my mom who had a stroke 4 years ago. I cried as I watched your well done story. Your strength has given me courage to face the days ahead. I know there are no words to express your loss but know that your story has helped me . God Bless and thanks.

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Sandy Morrison, Eden, NC — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:01:28 GMT

Ann,

Everyday I worry about how I will find the courage to face the loss of my parents. I have replayed words I heard you say in an interview once, "when I lost my mom, I realized I didn't have anyone to bump us against anymore". I'm not sure why those are the words that stuck with me, but I find them powerful so many times and see them as a metaphor for so many situations that I find myself in with my mother. Looking back it is her that I bumped up against for protection and to figure out just how I felt about issues and relationships. She is the one who keeps me in check even now as I have just turned fifty and she has just turned 80. Thank you for your insight and willingness to share the complexities of our relationship with our parents. The story of your Dad is a beautiful example of love and courage. Your words do matter and they make a difference in my life.

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Diane Goyena, Carnation, WA — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:16:11 GMT

Ann,
Thank you so much for sharing the story of your father and his passing. I have lost both parents in recent years. I believe that death is something that our society avoids discussing and therefore those who are facing the death of a loved one find themselves feeling very alone and have few resources to turn to. We will all experience the death of a loved one at some point in our lives and the topics of death and grief should not be treated like the proverbial "elephant in the middle of the room".

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Denise Ruix Port st lucie FL — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:26:15 GMT

Dear Anne,
Our whole family was deeply touched. Your an awesome daughter, I'm sure he is very proud of you.
God Bless you and your family.

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Stephanie-Umbro, Maine — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:47:33 GMT

Anne, I got to see parts of your story at the hotel where I was staying while on my way home. Thank you for being willing to share your story. You are fortunate to be Bob Curry's daughter, but I also think the greater joy was being known as Ann Curry's dad. You have done him proud with this tribute. My thoughts are with you & the family as you continue to miss a great man.

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Karen Pappas Scrymgeour, Boston, MA — Sat, 24 May 2008 00:54:58 GMT

Ann,
You and your Dad have given many people a gift from your hearts. Honoring your Dad's life and eventual death helps me find my way during a time when my Dad is battling cancer and pain everyday of his life. Your father's wish for it to be useful to someone has been fulfilled. I have never experienced this grief and helplessness in my life and learned so much from your brave and soulful segment.
I have always admired you and hope that you find peace in the wonderful memories of your special Dad.

Nervousness. Embarrassment. Hope.

Kendra, South Carolina — Sat, 24 May 2008 01:24:44 GMT

Ann That was a wonderful story..Im so sorry for your loss...I unfortunatly know what your going through. I lost my mom on May 13 2008 , but she was so young only 61.

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Jared Feinberg, Yorktown Heights, New YOrk — Sat, 24 May 2008 11:29:33 GMT

Ann,

First let me extend my deepest condolensces on the passing of your wonderful father. Last year I watched you interact with him on the "Trading Places" piece, and I thought he was a great guy with a lust for life, dancing with the ladies and demonstrating a great sense of humor. He was so proud of you (and deservedly so). Having lost my mother at age 19 and father at 24 (I am 51) I know what it is to lose a parent. However, at my young age at the time, I was better able to absorb the sorrow. I have now lived longer than my mother, and losing a loved one or friend really gets emotional. Let me close saying what a wonderful man your father was and we all will miss him. May God keep him close.

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Tracie Gettysburg Pa — Sat, 24 May 2008 14:21:30 GMT

Hello There Ann,
It's Hard to Believe That you Have Lost a Love one This Close to Father's Day.Because Now It's going to Be Hard at Frist. Because you Has a Parent Have to Be a Brave Parent in This Rought Time Because your Husband & Kid's & Your MOm & Brother's & Sister's will Be There Like There Families all Should. Well If you would Like to See your Mom Happy ask Her to Move in to your House. Because It will Help Your Mom Staying Busy also. Where Dose your Mom Live Now. Because if There Life in China Here is a Bad Eath Quark That Had alot of Danger in it.

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Chris Bruce, Richardson, Texas — Sat, 24 May 2008 22:08:27 GMT

Ann, I have watched you on Today for as long as I can remember. I have watched you grow and now watched you on another step in your journey. I applaude you as you celebrate the life and laughter of your father as I did mine. You are an inspiration to all and as I write this my prayer is that all celebrate life and laughter as you have. May we represent Him Well

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Jayne Bray, Safety Harbor, FL — Sun, 25 May 2008 02:34:48 GMT

Beloved Ann - you and your family were blessed to have your dad, a very spirited individual to say the least. And you've shared your blessing with all of us. I lost my mom two years ago. She had been a Hospice nurse for many years, so you can just imagine the bad jokes and laughter we shared, right through to the night before she went. Her funeral was truly a celebration of her life and her legacy of having touched so many. I still hear from strangers who were blessed by her gentle caring for their loved ones. Thank you for sharing, and for hopefully generating more and more open conversations about how to die so that we who are left can learn from those who went before. I lift up your family and rejoice in the knowledge that your dad and my mom are so very proud of how we helped them go...by loving, by sharing, and by laughing.

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Janice Strawn — Sun, 25 May 2008 03:00:26 GMT

Hi Ann. I just watched your video of your Dad ..it was nice.God Bless you and your Family

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Janice Strawn Shawnee, Oklahoma — Sun, 25 May 2008 03:01:29 GMT

Hi Ann. I just watched your video of your Dad ..it was nice.God Bless you and your Family

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Ashe Family — Mon, 26 May 2008 01:57:19 GMT

Dear Ann: Your story touched me deeply as all your stories do. My husband and I offered commentary on your story on biracial/multiracial families some time ago and it was posted on the Dateline website.
I lost my father, age 71, in November 07 after a battle with Alzheimer's, just 9 years after losing my mother at the age of 62 from cancer (secondhand). Remember the beautiful memories and legacy that your dad has left you and how proud you have made him. God Bless, Ashe Family

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Mary K. Johnson — Mon, 26 May 2008 03:34:34 GMT

Losing A Dad- & Son

He was Not - Then he Was - He is Not

Holding this new life in my bent knees
all wet and fussing, such big sobs
make me comfy please, oh please
using my voice, I sang Welcome Rob…

Hugs, kisses and tears,
calm my baby, calm,
Oh dear, oh dear,
Sweet lil one nothing to fear.

Rob's first yawn, a lil chin quiver,
peaceful content as he was dazing,
off into his first breathing sleep...
on this, his first days, endeavor.

He grew and was delightful to all,
dazzling, to each who met him,
a charmer, a lover, happy or grumpy,
Specially, to his best friend Paul.

Rob fell madly in love with Cheryl,
they gave life to Lil Rob n Alyssa,
dreams for them so happy and hopeful,
Cancer left them all, in pathetic peril.

Robs last yawn, filled me with terror,
staring lovingly at his son, he was dazing,
off into his last breathing sleep ....
On this, his last nights, endeavor.
Forever.

Rob The family Man
Nicknamed; Rob the slob,
Not liking that, became tidy,
On every task and job,
Neat and ever, so Pridy.

Growing with his brothers,
Wacky Jacky, Paul and James,
Dad n' worried mother,
He never was a pain.

There came a time,
"Rambo Rooster" arrived,
Switched on a dime,
No one was deprived.

This amazing new jester,
Fully knowing he was cool,
For many, a pester,
All the chicks, a jewel.

His body was all,
The hormones raged,
He became tall,
The world was paged.

He was here,
On our worlds stage,
No one best dare,
To play on his rage.

Muscles and looks,
Blonde with blue eyes,
Had all the chicks booked,
Made the other guys sigh.

Wit and humor,
He had it all,
No bad rumor,
Anyone could recall.

To all he was stunning,
Funny, silly a total gas,
Always goofing and punning,
But, a royal pain in the ass.

He grew, stopped his sham,
Little new cousins did arrive,
Aubrey, Jill, Cindy n' Shan,
Little one's he'd not deprive.

Nephews and niece his brothers,
Did indeed render,
John, Jake, Lil Paul gave Rob his druthers,
Special girl, his Kendra.

Then he had his very own,
His beloved Rob n' Alyssa,
From his own testosterone,
To him they were; "pissah".

All he wanted was to care n' love,
Raise them with his very best,
Cancer came, not from above,
To take Our Rob to his final rest.

Ann, I lost my Dad when I was 10.
My Grandchildren listed above lost theirs 2 yrs ago. Rob was only 37 & 1 week old, his babes just 4 & 10yrs.

Cancer simply sucks.

My deepest prayer's to you and yours,
Mary

My Mum is 92, going strong.

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Peggy Seattle, WA — Mon, 26 May 2008 16:36:51 GMT

Ann, Thank you so much for sharing such a private time with your father. As an oncology nurse I know you did wonders by talking about family, death, and dying.
Peggy R.N.

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Jun Nishihara, Japan — Tue, 27 May 2008 11:35:50 GMT

It was a very touching story. Thank you for sharing it with us, Ann.

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Michael Kulakis, Garden City, New York — Tue, 27 May 2008 15:24:22 GMT

Dear Ann,

I have been meaning to write to you since the story about your father aired last week.

I lost my dad on Christmas Eve last year. He was a Greek immigrant that came to this country in 1939 and became a US citizen after being drafted in the US Army in 1943 after fighting in Normandy and throughout Europe until the War's end.

My dad was 97 when he died and like your dad he loved life and he was very loved by his family and friends. What was so poignant for me in your piece was that you used the same terms to describe the life lessons your father had taught you as I did for my dad - "He taught me how to live and he taught me how to die".

My dad was relatively healthy until the age of 95 and he took his death in stride because being so selfless, he didn't want to be a burden to his family. My dad did not have a formal education but like your dad, had enormous wisdom, humor and a great capacity for love.

People tell me that he lived a full life and I should be thankful for that fact....and I am. But because he was such a good man and lived for 97 years, there is so much more to remember!

I wish you solace in your dad's many good memories and comfort in the knowledge that he will always be with you.

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Tim Drefahl, Yongin-si, South Korea — Wed, 28 May 2008 13:43:48 GMT

Dear Mrs. Curry,

I recently lost my grandmother in March and I understand what you may be going through. I have been living abroad for the last five years and made a random phone call to my family to be suddenly shocked that my grandmother was dying. She helped raise me. I was her favorite grandson, and everyone in the family knows it. Being 6,000+ miles away in South Korea, I had a choice to make, see her one last time alive or come back for the funeral. I chose the former and planned a trip to the US to watch and document her death.

I don't regret it one bit. After all of the years that I have been away, she still remembered me as if she was waiting for me to come home to see her one last time.

I will never forget the shock and disbelief in her eyes when I told her that I joined the Peace Corps and would be serving on a small South Pacific island and pointed the country out to her. It almost seemed like betrayal in many ways. But I think that deep down in side she knew that she would see me one more time before she passed.

I mourn with you and will miss my grandmother always.

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Gene, Toronto, Ontario — Thu, 29 May 2008 02:21:43 GMT

Dear Ann,
One image from your piece stuck in my mind: the 'fierceness' in your father's eyes (which, by the way, is also in yours!) He lived life fiercely, loved fiercely...like a good movie, he left us crying and laughing at the same time. You and your family are so blessed to have had such a person in your lives.

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Wendie Burnett, Maryville, TN — Thu, 29 May 2008 17:37:57 GMT

Ann,

I lost my Mom last Wednesday, May 21, 2008 and then watched your story. It was so touching and helped me get through a very tough time. My sister and I and our spouses had spent the last week of Mom's life with her, left Wednesday morning to go back home and she died Wednesday nite. I am so grateful we got to spend that sweet time with Mom. We are lucky to still have our Dad and he is still in good health. Thank you again for such a beautiful story. All or your series have been so thoughtful and you are always so kind to everyone. It was a pleasure sharing your loss with you.
Thank you,

Wendie Burnett

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Harriet Diaz — Thu, 29 May 2008 19:00:28 GMT

Dear Anne,

How blessed you and your family are to have a wonderful, and always laughing father. How very sorry i am for you and your family for your loss. Love is forever noting can take that from your heart.
My father died when i was 15 months old, I never knew him or my father family. People say you can't miss what you never had. It's not true i long for a father always. After seeing your wonderful special, and thank you for having a big heart and sharing, I am tring to find someone in my dad fmaily. Anne when i watch you on tv and look at your eyes telling a story, you can see how loving a person you are.
My prayers to you and your family, may God bring you peace in your grief. Thank You Harriet Diaz

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Charla Smith, Travelers Rest, SC — Fri, 30 May 2008 04:47:09 GMT

Dear Ann, My condolances on losing your father. He was obviously a man who moved forward, allowing nothing to stop him as he lived life to its fullest. I also thank you for allowing so many people into your private life as witnesses to his beauty. With Gratitude and Gods Blessings on you and your family,
Charla Smith

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Tim pensylvania — Sun, 01 Jun 2008 15:35:27 GMT

I lost my dad about 3 years ago. It was extremely hard on all of us. Mom is still doing great. As strange as it may sound, people should video any type of service that is held to honor our loved ones. Like anything else, when you are in the middle of it you miss alot. Think about your own wedding or reception. It was probably a blur. Tape the church service or mermorial service. You will be glad you did. We didnt and it hurts more and more everyday.

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Mark Graham, Denver, CO — Sun, 01 Jun 2008 22:23:18 GMT

PARENTS ARE SAGE * CHILDREN ARE GENIUS
The sage sees the fork in the road and looks for
the path of least resistance.
The genius sees the same fork and can’t resist
the one littered with the most stones.

The sage looks in the mirror and sees herself in
the eyes of the world.
The genius looks in the same mirror and sees
himself through his own eyes.

The sage sees a knot and untangles it.
The genius wants to know how the knot got that way.

The sage opens her heart.
The genius follows his.

The sage sees a circle and seeks its center.
The genius sees a circle and seeks to expand it.
___

Excerpt from:
Parents are Diamonds - Children are Pearls
Written by
Mark Graham – Copyright 2006

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Debbie Prejean, Lake Charles, LA — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 15:15:44 GMT

Dear Ann
I just love you. I lost my Dad to cancer on April 14 of this year and it has been very difficult. He suffered for 2 months once the cancer was found. I took care of him for those 2 months and will always cherish the time I spent with him. I lost my Mom 14 years ago. The night before he passed away he told the family that he was not ready to leave us but he was ready to go home to my Mom. While I know he is happy now it doesn't make it any easier for those that are still here and have to live without him.

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Elder Jay Biggs Atlanta Georgia — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 12:33:36 GMT

Ann, You nailed it! Why did you stop? Good, clean, funny! I was on the floor! Anything you have tried to do you have done well, another A+ to add to all of the rest of your none b grades.
This is why you don't have Boobs, because if you did then you would be a ten!
Good job Ann you could go professional!
Very Funny! You Go Girl!

Jay Biggs